I've
decided to end this Photo-of-the-Week series at the five year mark.
That will be at the 260th post of weekly photos. This is
#259. I have no particular reason for ending this series. I still
have thousands of photos left and I'm always taking more. I simply
feel like taking a break and coming up with something new. I'm
thinking it may be video instead of still photos. Stay tuned and
you'll be surprised as much as I may be with whatever I come up with.
So, there is still one more photo in this series next week.
Yesterday,
Saturday April 16, 2016, something occurred that hasn't occurred in
more than 20 years. As a matter of fact, something occurred that
probably hasn't occurred in possibly as many as about 50 years.
The
20 year marker was that my two younger sisters, Lois and Denise, and
I met and spent several hours together. I've seen each of them during
those 20 years. They've seen each other during those 20 years,
however, the three of us hadn't been together at the same time and
place over those years. My, how the years have flown and how we've
changed (please note, I didn't use the word “aged”).
The
50 year marker was that we actually were together for about five
hours and shared a meal together. Many people who read this will
raise their eyebrows about both of these events. I'll not go into the
details of our family, other than to say, there are a million stories
in the “Naked City” and ours is one of them. Obviously, we are
not a close knit family and, if you'd guess there were circumstances
that precipitated the situation, you'd be right.
My
sister Lois, four years younger than me, drove from her home, a town
just a couple miles from where we all grew up in northern New Jersey.
My sister Denise, eleven years younger than me, now lives in a small
town in the Shenandoah Valley about 15 miles south of Winchester,
Virginia. Winchester is where I made my home for about 26 years prior
to taking on my nomadic lifestyle the end of 2008.
I
drove to Winchester from the small town I use as my eastern base camp
in West Virginia and met up with Denise. She rode with me to Hershey,
Pennsylvania where Lois met us. Yes, the same Hershey as in Milton
Hershey and the Hershey Chocolate Company. It was about a 2½ to 3
hour drive each way to that meeting point for all of us. Of course, I
had close to an additional 2 hours each way from West Virginia to
Winchester. My total time behind the wheel was about 9 hours.
It
was cordial. And, as is typical, especially when you haven't shared
any time together over long periods, there was a lot of reminiscing.
We are in contact and there are no anger issues to speak of.
Logistics is the main issue. Lots of memories of old people (friends
and family), places and things. It's amazing how, as kids at
different ages in our development, we recall certain things and not
others. We also recall common memories quite differently sometimes.
It was very cathartic.
This
week's photo-of-the-week came to mind as I was sorting through a
bunch of photos from my hometown area in New Jersey. I was motivated
to look through this batch of photos by our meeting yesterday. The
house on the right of these two family houses is my Uncle Pete's
house. Uncle Pete has been dead for quite a few years. Admittedly, he
wasn't necessarily my favorite uncle. My father was raised as an
orphan from age 8 until he was 18. Uncle Pete's was my father's home
for those 10 years.
As
you look at the house you can see there is a basement, a first and
second floor and an attic. My father and my uncle, his younger
brother, grew up in the attic, which was, to the best of my
knowledge, unheated. And, of course, as most attics are, it was also
the hottest part of the house during the summer. Heat always rises
and the sun beats down directly on the roof of the attic.
I
don't recall if the last home my parents owned was air conditioned.
It likely was not since none of our earlier homes were air
conditioned, not even window air conditioners. I still remember how
hot it could be during the summers even in the lower, insulated parts
of the house. So, I can only imagine what my father's life was like
while growing up.
Reminiscing
is an excellent thing to do from time to time. I don't live in the
past and I don't enjoy talking with people who live in the past. That
was then and this is now. However, as my sisters and I did yesterday,
reminiscing about our early years can really help us appreciate the
life we live today. I surely do. How about you?
Live
free and be happy. EH